The Juicy Bits Blog
In the Juicy Bits Blog, we serve up a potpourri of musings, advice, and information about sex, love and relationships. We discuss everything from sexual health to erotic art, from scientific findings to boudoir toys, from the art of flirting to tips for keeping long-term love alive … and more!
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Play With Yourself (But Don’t Masturbate)
In our culture, masturbation still gets a bad rap. While we may no longer believe it causes degeneracy and disease or causes people to go blind (although I do know a lot of folks who wear glasses!), we still don’t celebrate solo sex for the wonderful, self-loving, healthy and pleasurable practice it is. We don’t […]
Vaginal Vs. Clitoral Orgasm
Vaginal Vs. Clitoral Orgasm It’s one hundred and ten years since Freud stirred up controversy with his theory that vaginal orgasms were the ‘mature’ way to come and that immature clitoral orgasms were for little girls and adolescents. It’s hard to believe that we’re still talking about it now—and that we’re still in a very […]
Genital Anatomy in the News! Again. Confusion Still Reigns About the G-Spot.
Part One. So Is there Or Is There Not A G-Spot? Due to the depth and complexity of information in both the original article and the media interpretation of it, I’ll be posting a series of blogs addressing various aspects of the female anatomy and orgasm debate and discussion. Confusion Still Reigns Is there a […]
Some Notes on Erotic Mastery
Becoming An Erotic Virtuoso Don’t expect to become a virtuoso overnight. Mastery takes time, energy, attention and practice. Lots of it. This is true for playing the piano and it’s true for sex, too. It’s been estimated that becoming expert at anything takes at least 10,000 hours. Luckily, since we’re talking about sex here, you’ve […]
Is Porn Turning Boys Into Monsters?
Headline from The Guardian: “Any boy who tells you that he hasn’t seen porn is lying. Porn changes what you expect from girls” While I certainly agree with many points in the article, such as we need to be teaching about relationship and communication skills and consent in sex education for children and teens, there […]