The Juicy Bits Blog

In the Juicy Bits Blog, we serve up a potpourri of musings, advice, and information about sex, love and relationships. We discuss everything from sexual health to erotic art, from scientific findings to boudoir toys, from the art of flirting to tips for keeping long-term love alive … and more!

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Vaginal Sweet Spots

Q: Are you Familiar with the A-spot? I am re-reading your awesome book ‘woman’s anatomy of arousal’ and was curious to know if you have heard of the A-spot? From what I can tell is that there hasn’t been much research done on this area. – Christina from ConfidentLovers.com A: Hi Christina, Thanks for your […]

Sexual Breathing for Sensational Sex

Sexy Breath Your breath is the most central and simple tool you have to shift your state of consciousness. You can use your breath in a multitude of ways. Your breath is one of your most foundational inner tools. You can breath to get more present, to relax, to expand your awareness of sensation, to […]

My Personal Sexual Harassment & Groping Score: What’s Yours?

All this talk of groping and forced kissing got me thinking. What’s my count of unwanted sexual encroachment? What’s yours? I consider myself a woman who has not been sexually assaulted. Not in the ‘classic’ sense of being raped or sodomized. I wasn’t incested nor have I experienced date rape. And yet, as the cultural […]

Breath: Your Most Basic Body Tool

In the Beginning Was the Breath Breath. It’s the foundation of life itself, one of the unchanging rhythms of existence. When you were born, the first thing you did was breathe—you ‘inspired.’ When you stop breathing, you die—you ‘expire.’ Breath: The Bridge to Somewhere No one had to teach you how to breathe. The pattern […]