The Juicy Bits Blog
In the Juicy Bits Blog, we serve up a potpourri of musings, advice, and information about sex, love and relationships. We discuss everything from sexual health to erotic art, from scientific findings to boudoir toys, from the art of flirting to tips for keeping long-term love alive … and more!
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With all this public talk about ‘open marriage’ it might be helpful to define what it is not. It is not having an adulterous affair. It does not involve lying, cheating or stealing (as in stealing your partner’s choice about who does what with whom). It is not that one person wants more sexual partners […]
It’s all over the news—there’s an epidemic infecting long-term intimate connections. Partners still love each other, but they’ve lost that erotic charge. Sexless marriages are apparently commonplace. I hear the moans (not the good kind!) all the time in my classes and practice. “The honeymoon is over.” “I used to be so hot for her.” […]
There’s a big difference between touching and feeling. When you touch something, you experience it more abstractly and less intimately than if you’re feeling it. Touch is mediated by all sorts of expectations and assumptions. For instance, if you’re touching skin, the experience is mediated by your awareness of what skin is supposed to feel […]
Men, do you want to NOT make the same mistakes so many other guys do (and so many women complain about)? Women, do you want a quick-and-easy way to clue your guy into what works and what doesn’t for you? Then read what follows! The Five Things You Need To Know About Women Women […]
Your inner pelvic muscles are one of the keys to turning yourself on. When you squeeze and release them, you’re actually sexually playing with yourself without using your hands (or anyone else’s). The pelvic floor muscle layers form a sandwich with your erectile network in the middle, so that moving these muscles directly stimulates your […]