The Juicy Bits Blog

In the Juicy Bits Blog, we serve up a potpourri of musings, advice, and information about sex, love and relationships. We discuss everything from sexual health to erotic art, from scientific findings to boudoir toys, from the art of flirting to tips for keeping long-term love alive … and more!

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Keeping Long-Term Relationships Hot! (Part 2)

Touch Like You’re Madly In Love How Touching In part one, I discussed how the period of time when we’re madly in-love tends to come to an end for most couples. However, we can use the unconscious behaviors and actions that came naturally at the beginning of our relationship to keep the blaze burning over […]

Keeping Long-Term Relationships Hot! Luscious Kissing (Part 1)

How to Fall In Love … Over and Over Again Look around at couples in any busy restaurant and you can probably tell which ones are madly and newly in love. It’s easy to recognize the telltale signs—they gaze into each others’ eyes, can’t keep their hands off each other, seem fascinated by everything their […]

Developing Erotic Mastery: Conscious Learning

Conscious Learning A Tasty Little Excerpt From “Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play & Practice” In many ways, learning to expand your sexual pleasure is like learning to play a musical instrument. It’s about acquiring a set of complex skills, albeit more intimate ones. There’s one important difference, though. If you don’t know how […]

Circumcision Doesn’t Cause Women’s UTIs. What Does?

Is Circumcision A Factor in Women’s Urinary Tract Infections? Is Sex? I started writing this as a response to a Facebook post about a women who doesn’t want to have sex with her uncircumcised partner as she believed his intact penis was causing her to get recurrent urinary tract infections. I don’t know if she wants […]

Connection: The Prime Directive of Sex

The following is a collection of excerpts from Succulent SexCraft: Your Hands-On Guide to Erotic Play and Practice. The Prime Directive: Sex Is About Connection At root, sex isn’t about what you do erotically with another person. It’s not about getting off or getting it on, scoring or hooking up. It’s about connecting, first with […]